Saturday, March 25, 2006

A Madrasah in Bridgeview, Illinois -Muslim girls basketball team demands banning men from matches played at public schools





Muslim Girl Basketball Players Seek Way To Be More Competitive


By DEBORAH HORAN
Chicago Tribune


Duaa Hamoud holds a basketball to her hip. She is standing in a long blue gown in a gym at Universal School in Bridgeview, Ill. Her head is covered in a white scarf pulled tightly around her neck. Not a wisp of hair is showing.

Around her, other high school girls dressed in similar flowing robes shoot a few casual baskets while they wait for practice to begin. There are no men in the gym - no male coaches, no boys from school, no dads or brothers in the bleachers.

So when the coach arrives and the real training starts, they can peel off their Islamic dress, exposing their sweat pants and short-sleeved T-shirts underneath.

"We'd run if we noticed a man peeking in the window," says Hamoud, 16. "We're not allowed to be seen by guys without [Islamic dress]. We've all learned to accept that."

But the girls can't accept that they have only been allowed to compete against girls' basketball teams from other Muslims schools. There are only four in the Chicago area, they complain, and their competition isn't exactly tough.

Since last year, they've been beseeching coach Farida Abusafa, a 26-year-old English teacher who also coaches sports, to ask public schools and non-Muslim private schools if their girls teams would be willing to compete against girls from the Universal School.

The problem is that the schools would have to agree to bar men and boys above the age of puberty from watching the games.

"It's not like it's a sin to play a public school," Abusafa said. "The problem is the males coming to the game."

The dilemma underscores the balancing act many Muslims perform as they toggle between American and Middle Eastern culture. Many of these young girls straddle the divide with ease, yapping on their cellphones at the mall one minute, observing the school's strict gender segregation the next. But the girls are also mindful of the challenges they face.

"It's something you have to decide you want to do," said Shaylin Najeeullah, 16, a member of the varsity basketball team. "You can stay true to what you believe in, or you can conform to everybody else and get lost."

The Universal School's principal, Farhat Siddiqi, said there was no reason the girls wouldn't be allowed to play teams from public schools or other private schools as long as the prohibition barring men were strictly observed. But she worried that parents from other schools might object.

"I don't want to have to impose our religious requirements on anyone else," Siddiqi said.

The Universal School, a coed private school next to the Mosque Foundation near 93rd Street and Harlem Avenue, is already a member of the Illinois High School Association. So nothing would prevent the girls from playing other public or private schools, said Beth Sauser, assistant executive director of the association responsible for girls basketball.

"They would have to contact whatever schools they want to play and work it out through the athletic directors," Sauser said.

Rich Piatchek, athletic director at Andrew High School in Tinley Park, Ill., said he wouldn't outright rule against a chance for his girls teams to play against Universal, but acknowledged that setting up games that excluded men might prove difficult.

"That could be an issue," Piatchek said. "I can't imagine that the parents aren't going to want to come and watch their children play. Most schools would probably have the same problem."

Christine Bochnak, the varsity girls basketball coach at Sandburg High School in Orland Park, Ill., said complying with the ban on males could be a little tricky - her assistant coach, for instance, is a man - but she thought the girls from both schools could benefit from the experience.

"The diversity would be good," Bochnak said. "I think it's always good when there's exposure to other cultures and ideas. It's a life lesson, and that's what we're supposed to be teaching when we're coaching basketball - teaching about life."

Conceivably, the Muslim girls could play in headscarves, sweat pants and long sleeves. But the bulky attire might make playing difficult, they said.

"It would probably be hot," said Shetha Hamoud, 12, Duaa's sister, a lanky, doe-eyed girl who plays on the junior varsity team. Playing in the long gown, called a jilbab, would be worse, Duaa Hamoud said.

"It would be like trying to play in a dress," she said.

Abusafa has contemplated the possibility of inviting the schools to play at Universal - even paying the transportation and referee costs - to avoid forcing those schools to comply with segregation rules. Bochnak, for one, said she would consider that possibility.

"I wouldn't have a problem with it," she said.

The girls at Universal say they won't be upset if the other schools turn them down.

"If other schools have a problem with this, it's OK," Duaa Hamoud said.

But they look forward to the possibility.

"We just get sick of playing the same schools," said Rana Othman, 14, a ninth-grader in braces who plays on the junior varsity team. "It would be more challenging to play the public schools."

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Glory to Allah... Amazing, eh? *gleams*

Sunday, March 19, 2006

Al-Asr ( The Time )


By Al-'Asr (the time).
Verily! Man is in loss,
Except those who believe and do righteous good deeds,
and recommend one another to the truth,
and abstain from all kinds of sins and evil deeds,
and recommend one another to patience.



Since last night my young son has been unwell. When I got back from work this evening. I decided to take him to hospital despite my exhaustion. There were many waiting; perhaps we will be delayed by more than an hour. I took my number and sat down in the waiting room. There were many faces, young and old, but all silent. Some brothers made use of the many booklets available in the waiting room. Some of those waiting had their eyes closed, while others were looking around. Most were bored. Once in a while the long silence was broken by a nurse calling out a number. Happiness appears on the one whose turn it is, and he gets up quickly; then silence returns.

A young man grabbed my attention. He was reading a pocket-sized Qur`an continuously; not raising his head even once. At first I did not think much about him. However, after one hour of waiting my casual glances turned into a deep reflection about his lifestyle and how he utilizes his time. One hour of life wasted! Instead of making benefit of that hour, it was just a boring wait. Then the call for prayer was made. We went to prayer in the hospital's mosque. I tried to pray close to the man who was reading the Qur`an earlier in the waiting room. After the prayer I walked with him. I informed him of how impressed I was of him and how he tries to benefit from his time.

He told me that most of our time is wasted without any benefit. These are days that go from our lives without being conscious of them or regretting their waste. He said that he started carrying the pocket-sized Qur`an around when a friend encouraged him to make full use of his time. He told me that in the time other people waste he gets to read much more of the Qur`an than he gets to read either at home or in the mosque. Moreover, besides the reward of reading the Qur`an, this habit saves him from boredom and stress. He added that he has now been waiting for one and a half hours. Then he asked, when will you find one and a half hours to read the Qur`an?

I reflected; how much time do we
waste? How many moments of our lives pass by, and yet we do not account for how they passed by? Indeed, how many months pass by and we do not read the Qur`an? I came to respect my companion, and I discovered that I am to stand for account and that time is not in my hand; so what am I waiting for? My thoughts were interrupted by the nurse calling out my number; I went to the doctor. But I want to achieve something now.

After I left the hospital I quickly went to the bookshop and bought a pocket-sized Qur`an. I decided to be mindful of how I spend the time.

May Allah bless us.

Friday, March 17, 2006

*I asked for strength, Allah gave me difficulties to make me strong,*
*I asked for wisdom, Allah gave me problems to solve,*
*I asked for prosperity, Allah gave me brain and brawn to work,*
*I asked for courage, Allah gave me danger to overcome,*
*I asked for love, Allah gave me troubled people to help,*
*I asked for favours, and Allah gave me opportunities,*
*I received nothing I wanted, instead i received everything i needed,*
*my prayer has been answered!*
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*LIFE WITHOUT ALLAH*

*L - Lonely*
*I - Insecure*
*F - Full of doubt*
*E - Emptiness*

*LIFE WITH ALLAH*

*L - Light and easy*
*I - Inspiring*
*F - Full of hope*
*E - Enthiusiasm*

*People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered.. forgive them anyway*
*If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish motives... be kind anyway*
*If you are successful, you'll win some false friends, and some true enemies.. succeed anyway*
*What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight...build anyway*
*If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous... be happy anyway*
*The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow.. be good anyway*
*Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough... give them the best you have anyway*

*You see.. in the final analysis.. it's between you and Allah,*
*It never was between you and them anyway!*
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Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Salaam.

Glad to say that my grandfather is back at home, after spending a wearisome week and a half at the NUH. But then, my father was admitted to Tan Tock Seng Hosp, cuz of the same case like my grandfather. SyafahumaAllah wa ra'ahuma..=)

Well, did nothing much today except for reading two exciting library books.
Yep, Mas (my monstrous yet sweet lil sis) and I paid a loyal visit to the Library. Borrowed a Mly book and an Eng book for her. And as for my self, I treated myself with an english novel which was written by the author of Ella Enchanted. The book I borrowed is called The Wish. It is like a modern fairy tale. Sure enough, I enjoyed reading every page of it. Pleased to say that I've picked up new words from that book. Valedictory means farewell. Nice~.

Aah.. here comes the exciting part. The other book is a Mly novel. Kind of a romance novel BUT not that kind of romance. The book is more about Jihad. It is about a young lad who is pursuing his degree in Jordan, where he learns a lot about life, about fighting for his beloved religion, Islam. And at the same time (yeah, there is always a bit of romance here), he awaits for his love. But sad to say that his dream of becoming a groom was shattered as soon as he found out someone had swept off his dream girl's feet. Sad eh? but nahh...A strong man, he is. he recites the noble Qur'an so as to gain solace and serenity...and finally met someone who is willing to be by his side always, fighting for Islam, for Allah.

Hmm... What a great book. Erks. I just realised I have to do an English book review and now here I am, doing a Malay one. Bummer. -_-"

Oh well. Fi amanillah.

Friday, March 10, 2006

Salaam. What a hot day it was. The sweltering heat and the scorching sun were unbearable. And to make the matter worse, I was not in a favourable mood. But hey, it rained in the afternoon!!!
Hamdan lillah 'ala ni'matih!!

"Qaddarallah...wa ma syaa'a fa'ala..". True it is, our Mu'allim's saying. =)

I have mood swings. Just like Khalifah Harun Ar-rasyid. Heh. I've learnt a lot today. Grateful, I am.

I went home right after school has ended. As usual, I dozed off in the bus. Muahaha.And so I trotted towards home happily.Not that happily though cuz of the sizzling weather. But as soon as I reached my doorstep and was about to open the door, I realised it was locked, indicating that nobody is at home. And guess what? I have no keys with me. hah. I was slapping my head hard thinking, "great.just great.argh". I paced to and fro at my doorstep and I got an idea. I chunked my schoolbag into the tiny store outside my house, where my parents placed a bag of soil for gardening, a skateboard that both me and my sister hid and a broomstick.
Then I thought.."I've not read any library books or gone to the library for a long time". heh. I guess you get my drift. ^.^

I went to the bus stop and boarded bus service 85. It is a new service and I thought it was heading towards Compass Point. So I hopped on the bus happily (again). Then I was dumbfounded to find out that it stops at PUNGGOL. Argh. Another slap felt. I put on a cool face and I suppose people on the bus were wondering why I boarded the bus, especially in my uni and without any schoolbag. Hoho. I dropped off at the nearest bus stop and decided to board service 86 which goes towards Compass Point. Gosh. What a nerd I am. -_-"

I waited and waited for the bus to arrive as it was the ONLY bus service available there.
The third slap. But somehow, I managed to get to the library! Yeahh!!! Gosh, it was heaven, I am telling you. Heaven.heh. Exaggerating, am I? Lol. Hey, the library is my favourite place, all right. Hmff.

So off I went upstairs to the library. I thought of stopping by at Starbucks to greet my cousin who is currently the manager there. Who knows I might get a free drink from her, like before? Haha. what an evil cousin I am. But nahh, I did not do so as she was busy preparing drinks for her customers, from what I observed outside the cafe.

At last, when I stepped into the library, I went straight to the young adults' fiction corner. After browsing and choosing 2 books, I went to the Malay's fiction corner. Cool stories and no, mind you, it was not a romance novel. No no. No romance novels for me.
I was so jubilant and enthusiastic to borrow and went to the borrowing station. Guess what? I could not do so cuz of my card...spoilt or smthg. So what did I do next?

Answer: I spent another hour reading the selected books. Heheh.Unfortunately, I did not manage to complete all three books. so I hid it somewhere before striding off towards home. I vowed to myslef I would go to the library tonight with my sister, using my IC. hmff.. stupid ez-link card. mwaha.

Eh wait. Have not finished my summary.Later, I took bus service 372. when I reached my block, I muttered a little prayer, " please let someone be at home." And yes, my parents and Mas ARE at home! Weheee!!

Phew. How relieved I was. And then I ate my lunch and used the comp (and still am). hehe

So that was how I ventured into 'other parts' of the world. Haha. whatever.

Moral of the story: Somehow there is a blessing in disguise. Just look at how misfortunate I was to be locked outside my house without any money (except for 20 pathetic cents) or food. But hey, I was very fortunate to get to explore the virtual world by reading books at the library.

Boy, what an experience it was. =D

Thursday, March 09, 2006

KELEBIHAN SOLAT BERJEMAAH MENURUT TEORI FIZIK

Seorang professor fizik di Amerika Syarikat telah membuat satu kajian tentang kelebihan solat berjemaah yang disyariatkan dalam Islam. Katanya tubuh badan kita mengandungi dua cas elektrik iatu cas positif dan cas negatif. Dalam aktiviti harian kita sama ada bekerja, beriadah atau berehat, sudah tentu banyak tenaga digunakan.

Dalam proses pembakaran tenaga, banyak berlaku pertukaran cas positif dan cas negatif, yang menyebabkan ketidakseimbangan dalam tubuh kita.

Ketidakseimbangan cas dalam badan menyebabkan kita rasa letih dan lesu setelah menjalankan aktiviti seharian. Oleh itu cas-cas ini perlu diseimbangkan semula untuk mengembalikan kesegaran tubuh ke tahap normal.

Berkaitan dengan solat berjemaah, timbul persoalan di minda professor ini mengapa Islam mensyariatkan solat berjemah dan mengapa solat lima waktu yang didirikan orang Islam mempunyai bilangan rakaat yang tidak sama.

Hasil kajiannya mendapati bilangan rakaat yang berbeza dalam solat kita bertindak menyeimbangkan cas-cas dalam badan kita. Semasa kita solat berjemaah, kita disuruh meluruskan saf, bahu bertemu bahu dan bersentuhan tapak kaki. Tindakan-tindakan yang dianjurkan semasa solat berjemaah itu mempunyai berbagai kelebihan. Kajian sains mendapati sentuhan yang berlaku antara tubuh kita dengan tubuh ahli jemaah lain yang berada di kiri dan kanan kita akan menstabilkan kembali cas-cas yang diperlukan oleh tubuh. Ia berlaku apabila cas yang berlebihan - sama ada negatif atau positif akan dikeluarkan, manakala yang berkurangan akan ditarik ke dalam kita. Semakin lama pergeseran ini berlaku, semakin seimbang cas dalam tubuh kita.

Menurut beliau lagi, setiap kali kita bangun dari tidur, badan kita akan merasa segar dan sihat setelah berehat berapa jam. Ketika ini tubuh kita mengandungi cas-cas positif dan negatif yang hampir seimbang. Oleh itu, kita hanya memerlukan sedikit lagi proses pertukaran cas agar keseimbangan penuh dapat dicapai. Sebab itu, solat Subuh didirikan 2 rakaat.

Seterusnya, setelah sehari kita bekerja kuat dan memerah otak semua cas ini kembali tidak stabil akibat kehilangan cas lebih banyak daripada tubuh. Oleh itu, kita memerlukan lebih banyak pertukaran cas. Solat jemaah yang disyariatkan Islam berperanan untuk memulihkan keseimbangan cas-cas berkenaan. Sebab itu, solat Zohor didirikan 4 rakaat untuk memberi ruang yang lebih kepada proses pertukaran cas dakam tubuh.

Situasi yang sama turut berlaku di sebelah petang. Banyak tenaga dikeluarkan ketika menyambung kembali tugas. Ini menyebabkan sekali lagi kita kehilangan cas yang banyak. Seperti mana solat Zohor, 4 rakaat solat Asar yang dikerjakan akan memberikan ruang kepada proses pertukaran cas dengan lebih lama.

Lazimnya, selepas waktu Asar dan pulang dari kerja kita tidak lagi melakukan aktiviti-aktiviti yang banyak menggunakan tenaga. Masa yang diperuntukkan pula tidak begitu lama. Maka, solat Maghrib hanya dikerjakan sebanyak 3 rakaat adalah lebih sesuai dengan penggunaan tenaga yng kurang berbanding 2 waktu sebelumnya.

Timbul persoalan di fikiran professor itu tentang solat Isyak yang mengandungi 4 rakaat. Logiknya, pada waktu malam kita tidak banyak melakukan aktiviti dan sudah tentu tidak memerlukan proses pertukaran cas yang banyak.

Setelah kajian lanjut, didapati terdapat keistimewaan mengapa Allah mensyariatkan 4 rakat dalam solat Isyak. Kita sedia maklum, umat Islam amat digalakkan untuk tidur awal agar mampu bangun menunaikan tahajjud di sepertiga malam. Ringkasnya, solat Isyak sebanyak 4 rakaat itu akan menstabilkan cas dalam badan serta memberikan tenaga untuk kita bangun malam (qiamullail).

Dalam kajiannya, professor ini mendapati bahawa Islam adalah satu agama yang lengkap dan istimewa. Segala amalan dan suruhan Allah Taala itu mempunyai hikmah ynag tersirat untuk kebaikan umat Islam itu sendiri. Belaiu merasakan betapa kerdilnya diri dan betapa hebatnya Pencipta alam ini. Akhirnya, dengan hidayah Allah beliau memeluk agama Islam.

-dipetik dari http://fauzynm.tripod.com/Nasihat/Nasihat170/nasihat170.html

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Subhanallah... See the Glory of Allah.. Islamic science has always amazes me... Hamdan lillah.. I've learnt a new thing today and I hope you do too. =)

So let us perform the salaah as a jamaah sincerely. May Allah bless us always. Allahumma Amin. =)

Saturday, March 04, 2006


Reflection lyrics


Look at me
You may think you see
Who I really am
But you'll never know me
Every day It's as if I play a part
Now I see If I
wear a mask I can fool the world

But I cannot fool my heart
Who is that girl I see
Staring straight back at me
When will my reflection show
Who I am inside I am now
In a world where
I Have to hide my heart
And what I believe in
But somehow I will
show the world
What's inside my heart
And be loved for who I am
Who is that girl I see
Staring straight back at me
Why is my reflection
Someone I don't know
Must I pretend that I'm
Someone else
For all time
When will my reflection show
Who I am inside
There's a heart that must be free to fly
That burns with a need to know the reason why
Why must we all conceal
What we think
How we feel
Must there be a secret me
I'm forced to hide
I won't pretend that
I'm Someone else
For all time
Whenwill my reflection show
Who I am inside
When will my reflection show
Who I am inside


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Salaam.

I want Mulan the movie CD!! I miss watching it. I always cry and laugh my heart out while watching it. That is why I want to own a CD of the show. Hmff. Maybe later. After my money bank is reloaded again. And after taking all the depressing tests. -_-"
Oh well.. I think I am going to reward myself with that CD after studying for all those papers. =)